The Unique Joys of Second Wedding Planning
With divorce rates between 40-50%, we can’t ignore that some weddings are the second for some and you may be planning a second wedding. Whether your first trip down the aisle feels like a distant memory or it’s a more recent part of your past, a second wedding is a chance to celebrate love anew. So, grab a cup of your favorite beverage, and let’s chat about how this experience can be different, special, and incredibly fulfilling.
Embracing a More Relaxed Approach
One of the most noticeable differences in planning a second wedding is the shift in mindset. Many find themselves less constrained by the “must-dos” and more focused on the “want-tos.” This time around, it’s less about impressing others and more about what truly makes you and your partner happy. Think intimate gatherings, more personalized vows, and perhaps a venue that breaks away from tradition.
Size Matters… Or Does It?
Second weddings often come with a revised guest list. While first weddings can sometimes balloon in size due to family and societal expectations, the second time around is often more about quality over quantity. It’s your chance to celebrate with those who truly matter. So, whether you go for a cozy family affair or a grand bash with friends, remember it’s all about who makes your day brighter.
Style Evolution
Your personal style likely has evolved since your first wedding, and this is a wonderful opportunity to showcase that growth. Maybe you opt for a non-traditional dress or suit, choose a theme that’s more ‘you,’ or even decide to go barefoot on a beach! This wedding is a reflection of who you are now, and the choices can be as unique as you and your partner.
Blending Families
For many, second weddings include more than just two people; they can bring together families. If you or your partner have children, involving them in the ceremony can be a beautiful way to symbolize the blending of two families into one. From special readings to unique unity ceremonies, there are countless ways to make them feel included.
Prioritizing What’s Important
With experience comes wisdom. The second time around, you likely have a clearer understanding of what elements of the wedding are most important to you. Is it the photography? The food? The music? Invest in those aspects that will make your day memorable for you, and don’t sweat the small stuff.
A Chance to Do Things Differently
Ever thought, “I wish I had done that at my wedding”? Well, here’s your chance! If you skipped the first dance, didn’t have a chance to have that beach wedding, or missed out on having a certain kind of cuisine, now’s the time to incorporate those elements.
Celebrating Your Story
Every love story is unique, and a second wedding is a powerful way to celebrate your journey. This isn’t just about starting anew; it’s about acknowledging the path that brought you here. Let your unique story guide you to make this day all about you and your partners’ journey to the altar.
Second weddings are a beautiful testament to hope, resilience, and the enduring nature of love. They’re a chance to celebrate your individuality, your growth, and the unique love story that you and your partner share. So, embrace this experience with joy, authenticity, and maybe a bit of that hard-earned wisdom. Here’s to new beginnings and the wonderful adventure that lies ahead!
Remember, less is more
~ Melissa
